Five things I learned at the age of 23

  1. Not everything in life goes to plan – and thats okay

    You may have had a designated ‘life plan’ in mind, but you may get side tracked. Thats fine, and perfectly normal. You may stray down a different route entirely, or simply find your way back – but either way that is the pathway that you was meant to meet, and you will eventually end up where your meant to be. It may be ideal to have some idea of where you want to go, but it is important to also live your life in the present, as opposed to the past or the future.

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2. Bad things happen, it is inevitable.

Everyone is going to experience a bad day, some worse than others. You may observe that someone has had a bad day, experience or event and feel somewhat sympathetic or if not unsympathetic towards them. But, the truth is, that you are likely to experience a situation similar to them at some point in your life, but may be of a higher or lesser extent. Therefore, it’s important to take today for what it is now, but to perhaps offer a shoulder for anyone experiencing a ‘bad’ day, as we all need it from time to time. But, also to prepare yourself for days that may not be as fortunate as the ones that you are experiencing now.

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3) ‘Adulting’ is hard, incredibly hard.

What with the rising mortgages, cars, expenditure etc it is hard to even get your foot in the doorstep, especially now in the 21st century. I’m still trying to get my head round this, but it’s important to begin to think partially about your future, as every little step is a milestone closer to becoming a somewhat ‘adult’. Start by researching with an open mind, and then you have plenty of time to build up to being an ‘adult’, you will have to have patience and not rush into anything.

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4) Focus on your own life.

I found that some people are tempted to get wrapped up in other peoples lives, that they don’t focus on their own. I think that it’s crucial to put your own life as a priority, and work on becoming a better version of yourself. Not to worry about the opinions of others so much, unless it’s positive or constructive. Focus on your dreams, get a hobby, go for a run – be proactive.

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5) Don’t take anything for granted – anything at all.

You may be so caught up in your everyday routine that you forget to take life for what it is. To socialise with your family and friends, trips to the beach, just appreciate the sound of nature. All these things are taken for granted in return for focusing on our working lives. Although this is at the forefront, we need to not forget to appreciate the fact that we are living, but also that we have our friends and relatives present. But ultimately, the world is your:

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Thank you for reading ❤

If there is anything you learned by your present age, feel free to comment 🙂 OX

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Amsterdam – The land of dutch and ‘herbal’ substances.

As you are most likely aware, Amsterdam is the Netherlands capital, known for it’s culture, heritage and flexibility on certain laws.

I’m not particularly fond of the whole ‘herbal’ scene, but the idea of exploring a city that boasts exquisite architecture, history and canals seemed somewhat appealing.

I have just finished University, so my funds are a bit limited. I had a look on Wowcher, and noticed that they had an offer for Amsterdam – one which you couldn’t turn down.

I managed to book four days, in a hotel that wasn’t too far from Centraal station.

I arrived at Southend Airpoirt, Essex – it is the ideal airport as it’s small, not crowded and is very quick to board your flight *travel heaven*.

We had a morning flight, which lasted around 30 minutes – with Easy Jet. It was the quickest flight I had ever been on. If I were to go again, I would get a ferry and drive to Amsterdam.

Landing, we went to the local taxi rank and got in a mini bus that was 17euro. (If we would have known it would have been easier to get the airport train for 4euro).

It was a five minute journey to our hotel: Kings Court.

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First impressions: The staff were very friendly and very welcoming. The hotel was modern and clean. We arrived early, and we were told that our room would be ready around 2:00 o’clock. The man stored out suitcases in a security based room and even agreed to put our duty free behind reception. This is the first time that I’ve actually felt at ease about leaving my luggage. The rooms had two single beds for me and my friend. Very modern, with dark wood detailing. The bed was the most comfortable I’ve slept in (double mattress). Very clean. The bathroom was very modern, with a walk in shower. The only negatives is that there was only one mirror in the bathroom and the traffic outside could get noisy during the day. Cold breakfast was included – but we didn’t use this.

Day One:

We accidentally walked to the train station which was very far away, so took around 45 minutes. The station had a huge pool with thick green algae and little ducks trying to swim. Bikes were evidently everywhere at the station.

We later realised that Lelylaan train station was a five minute walk from our hotel, and was a short walk through the building works.

From here we got the tram, where one would come every few minutes to Centraal station. We asked for a one hour ticket, which was 2.90 euros.

The weather was quite humid for August. But, we were glad that there was clear skies. We got off at a station near Centraal and begun to explore.

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All of the buildings and narrow side walks all looked very similar, and it was easy to get lost. It was very absurd seeing cannabis being promoted everywhere. There were brownies, smoking places, shops. The one I found most amusing was the ‘Cannabis Ice Cream’

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We had a look in a few of the shops – and I do recommend the clothes! Admittedly I thought that the make-up was over priced, they stock Anastasia Beverly Hills! However at double the price, as a eyebrow dip pomade was 30 euros… However my favourite clothes shop was ‘Only’ were I brought two reasonable priced tops.

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Food: ‘Globe Kitchen Steakhouse’ – I ordered a Aperol Spritz (because treat yourself, why not) for 8.50 euros (my friends smoothie was 7.50 euros). The decor was retro, but a bit outdated. Narrowly thin, like the majority of the buildings, with a narrow staircase leading downstairs to the toilet. Staff wasn’t as welcoming. I was hungry, but not overly. I asked what the ‘mixed snack’ was on the menu, and she just replied ‘meat’. This is what it was, to be honest it wasn’t nice at all. I’m unsure what the meat was, it was different colours of orange, grey etc – not appetising at all. I ordered chips as was hungry, and they were nice.

Sex Museum –  5euros entry – cheap and is hugely popular for tourists – so we thought we would have a look around. It was filled with mannequins, some that moved and had music. The majority of it had pictures with a lot of writing and was very small. It was quite archaic and had a 60s sort of feel to it. I think that it’s quite over rated and won’t be going back, but I found there wasn’t many touristy places, so it’s worth seeing for the small fee, but don’t expect much.

 

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Second Day:

We had another day of sightseeing, making use of the one hour unlimited tram ticket. There were a few horses and carriages – which were very pretty. Unique statues and building and the canal. There was the option to get pedal bikes – but unfortunately they were all sold out when we went.

The Bulldog – Upon research, this is one of the main coffee shops in Dam, so we thought we would see what it was like. We went in one of the smaller ones, were there were a chain of three. It was quite small and very busy, it had a sort of forest and mushroom theme. Loads of people were obviously smoking and some had sunglasses on. A laptop was playing ‘Tomorrowland’ house music, and the workers were smoking themselves. We ordered a fruit smoothie, so we did feel a tad awkward as everyone was smoking. We done some more sightseeing and came home early. We asked the hotel if they done room service, but that was closed for the summer, so they gave us a takeaway menu. It was 20 euro for a pizza, chips and drink. We get an early night, as we were up early.

 

Day Three: Anne Franks House – A MUST-DO! In the morning we went to a nearby cafe and had a small english breakfast – 10euros and brought a cupcake, which looked nicer than it tasted. We then headed to Anne Franks house, which I had previously ordered online. It was the 30 minute induction, with the museum. We waited at the canal then headed over for out 1:30 slot. We entered the building, then a room with pictures of Anne Frank and her life. A dutch lady, spoke about explained the timeline, then we picked up a earset then could walk around the museum at our own pace. It was very interesting but also sad about what the family had to endure whilst here. I won’t go into too much detail, but it is defiantly worth doing. If you get a chance to write in the guestbook at the end, then I would highly recommend. There is a souvenir shop, which had the books (tempting), but I just brought a postcard.

Day Three Evening:

We brought a medium meal from Mcdonalds, which was amazing, but 10 euroes. We really disliked the dutch food, so this was a safe option. This was in Centraal. We also saw a group of people being filmed for a music festival – which was quite interesting. We decided to go to the infamous ‘Red Light District’ just to see what it’s all about. It is pretty much what everyone says it is like. It was very busy – mainly large groups of men. Once we had walked through we wanted to find a nice bar that we could sit and have a few drinks, however we couldn’t find any nice bars. We were quite bored and there wasn’t that much to do. When we walked further out it did seem like Amsterdam is more of a night city, as it was a lot more busy. I think it was defiantly better suited to men and/or couples. The rest of Dam, was lit up, which was quite pretty.

 

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Day Four (Final Day)

We went back to our favourite cafe – St Pauls Cafe, where we had a english fry up! (Literally lived off fry ups). Had a coffee, which was equivalent to two mouthfuls. The weather wasn’t very nice and we were quite tired, so after walking around for a bit, we headed back to the hotel, where we chilled until the evening. We paid 4 euros for a train to the airport, which was around 7 minutes – defiantly recommend. Goodbye Amsterdam!

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Things I didn’t do, which I wish I did: Museums, ride a bike, canal ride…

Upon reflection: I admired the architecture, culture and very good transport. I disliked that is was very pricey, bikes were prioritised over pedestrians and that there wasn’t much to do on the evening. If you want a chilled holiday, then this would be more for you.

Tips: Take a lot of money! Each basic meal is between 10-20 euros, bring an umbrella, wear comfy trainers.

Please let me know your thoughts on Amsterdam! Ox